Monday, August 15, 2011

Berat mata memandang, Berat lagi bahu yang memikul:: Khas Buat Mama Rafiq::

I did not know her, I never meet her. I just read about her and that is enough to wrench my heart. There are few common things between her and me. Firstly, we both got married in the year 2010, secondly, we both have a little son born in 2011, thirdly we both are in our 20's.I'm 24 and she is 26 years old. The difference is she is suffering from stage 4 brain cancer. I read and knew her stories from Kak Moon while I'm blog hopping.

Daripada pembacaan saya, Norma seorang yang sgt tabah tp sekarang dia sakit, she is fragile now. Luckily, Talib (Norma's husband) always around and be with her all the time. Semoga Allah sentiasa mengurniakan limpah rahmatNYA pada pasangan ini. Mereka pasangan muda seperti saya dan suami. Mereka diuji dengan ujian yang maha dashyat dari Allah SWT. Saya kagum dengan suami Norma, Talib yang setia dan terus menyayangi isterinya walaupun keadaan isterinya tidak lagi seperti dulu.

Norma dan Talib dikurniakan seorang cahaya mata lelaki berusia 8 bulan. Abdul Rafiq sangat comel, sangat bulat sama mcm Ilyaas Hafiy. Saya sgt kagum dgn Norma kerana mampu melahirkan Abdul Rafiq secara normal padahal pada waktu itu dia sudah sangat sakit menanggung brain cancer yg masih belum disahkan lagi pada waktu itu. Norma mula menunjukkan tanda-tanda sakit pada usia kandungnanya 7 bulan, apabila dia tidak lagi dapat melihat dgn jelas dan semua yg dilihatnya nmpk kabur,bengkang bengkok. Bila dia buat check-up, doktor cakap itu simptom mengandung, alahan.tp bila keadaan jadi makin kritikal, barulah doktor buat pemeriksaan yang lebih menyeluruh ke atas Norma. Saat Norma bergelut dgn maut untuk melahirkan zuriatnya, dia sudahpun sakit tenat tp Allah Maha Kaya, diberi kekuatan pada Norma utk melahirkan anaknya secara normal. Belum lagi Norma habis pantang, doktor sahkan Norma menghidap barah otak stage 4.I can't imagine how she felt.How her husband felt and what will happen to their baby.Sekarang Norma dah menjalani beberapa siri operation, treatment radiotheraphy pun dah tak membantu Norma and the doctors has been decided that Norma no longer need to be in the hospital. She is currently at home now.

Tapi keluarga Norma dan Talib tak putus asa sampai di situ saja. They are currently striving hard to find other alternatives for Norma. Even the doctor has decided that Norma longer need to be in the hospital. Yes, she’s at home right now. But this family never giving up. They’ve been to Pusat Rawatan Al-Hidayah and I’m praying that some miracle will happen. InsyaAllah, dengan kuasa Yang Maha Esa. Can read the rest of her story here.

Sebagai seorang ibu dan juga isteri, saya sangat bersimpati dgn Norma. Saya tahu simpati saya tak ke mana-mana, hanya doa yang dpt sy berikan buat Norma. To all my readers, let's help Norma, at least by praying for her to get well soon and be strong to fight the 'ujian', and to those yang ingin menyumbangkan wang kepada Norma, please do so. The family definitely need the money for her treatment. i'm just helping Kak Moon to spread the word to help Norma and her family.
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saya tidak sampai hati nak letak kan gambar Norma, Talib ataupun anak kecil mereka di sini.

2 comments:

  1. semua org pun bace cite nie ek?
    sedih kan bace cite diorg nie.
    i hari2 dok bukak blog kak Moon nak tau update.
    T_T

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  2. haah tula.sedih sgt.i tahan2 dr nangis bila bc kat ofis.

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